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These are anxious and troubling times. These are exciting, amazing times.  Don’t let fear, anxiety or depression prevent you from living fully.  You have a tool within you can access anytime - your dreams.  Our dreams, properly understood tell us the truth about ourselves and our situation. Dream work in therapy is a wonderful resource. Dreams give us pictures - images of our inner mind. A therapist using dream work does not interpret a client’s dream. The therapist’s job is to teach you to discover the meaning in your dream. Insight from this process often comes very quickly and is enough to solve the problem.

In addition to specific problem solving, dream work is also a way of enriching and deepening your understanding of yourself, your relationships and your creative potential.  Your dreams can guide you as you develop your potential to its fullest. 

Anxiety

February 8, 2010

The air is thick with anxiety these days.  The recession and money worries drag on.  Just when we feel safe to travel, terrorism threatens again.  There’s unease about the competency of our leaders, locally, nationally and around the world - no matter on what end of the political spectrum we find ourselves.  There’s a sense we don’t know what’s going to happen and we couldn’t control it even if we knew.  That’s a recipe for anxiety!  What to do?

Here are a few tips for managing the anxious malaise you may be in now:

1. Get outside (yes, even in cold weather!) exercise and breathe.  (Some of you who know me are snickering - I’ll have you know I just got back from a lunch time power walk around my office neighborhood.  Yes, I keep my walking shoes in the trunk of my car.)  For maximum anxiety control, walk fast for 45 minutes to an hour.

2. Journal your anxieties.  I just posted about journaling and how helpful it is.  Try this: make a list of your specific anxieties using no more than 1 - 2 words.  Go back and cross through the ones you have absolutely no control over.  Set those aside in your mind.  Beside each of what’s left on your list write one thing (just one!), one step you can take in the next 24 hours to change it, improve it, delegate it, resolve it.  Now do those things and no more.  Repeat this exercise each day in your journal and note your progress.

3. Turn everything OFF!  Try a news fast for one week.  Unless your job absolutely requires it, do not watch or read news for at least a week.  Swear off political talk shows, websites and emails.  Do not even watch TV at all or get on any electronic device, computer, etc. for at least an hour before bedtime.  You’ll sleep better and feel better. 

4. Take care of yourself.  Slow down, get some alone time, listen to music, meditate, pray.  Become mindful of the present and remember you have all you need for this moment. 

5. If anxiety becomes so overwhelming you find you cannot leave your house or function normally, see a mental health professional.

The Journey in (Not Up!) Workshop sponsored by the Dream Groups of St. James’ Episcopal Church.  Friday evening and Saturday, February 26 and 27, 2010.  Featured speaker: The Rt. Rev. Larry Maze, retired bishop of the Episcopal diocese of Arkansas.  Cost: $65.00 per person; this includes lunch on Saturday.  $75.00 at the door.  Topics include: Why cultivation of the inner life is essential, Removing the log in our own eye: Dealing with our Shadow, Jesus as Wisdom Teacher and model for the inner journey.  Send your name, address, email and phone number with your check for $65.00 to St. James’ Episcopal Church, 3921 Oak Ridge Dr., Jackson, MS 39216 Attn. Barbara Dearman.  Call Barbara at 601-362-5515 or email her at brd1@bellsouth.net with any questions.

 

Summer Dream Conference!  Kanuga, North Carolina, May 30 - June 4.  What an exciting conference this is for all of us who extoll the healing power of dreams!  Come hear therapists, clergy, artists, poets (including Cathy Smith Bowers, the newly named Poet Laureate of North Carolina) speak and lead workshops on all things dreamy.  Contact www.hadeninstitute.com for more information.